Right here at the end of pride month, I want to wish a happy pride to everyone who’s still not sure whether they’re actually some flavor of queer or not.

I didn’t realize I was bisexual until I was into my 40s, and there were several years there where I just wasn’t sure. Yeah, I’d always thought girls were cute and sexy sometimes, but did I think it hard enough to count???

It can be difficult to figure out, and if you’re still in that process, then know that you deserve to have some pride, too – not necessarily because you are queer, but simply because you’re willing to question that heteronormative assumption. Good for you.


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